My dad died when I was very young—just two years old, yet he is still part of me and my life.

When I got married his spirit was very much with us—I even wrote part of my wedding speech on his behalf.

“Love is one of the most powerful forces in the world. It can break hearts but it can also heal them. Love gives us great strength and courage.

Love can even be felt beyond the physical realm, we have all lost those we care about. I believe that those we have lost send us little signs to let us know they’re still with us - my particular sign is butterflies.

I wrote part of my wedding speech on behalf of my dad.

In the week leading up to my wedding, there was a black butterfly that would rest outside my window. I would see it and know it was a sign from dad. I kept hoping I would have a connection with him on my wedding day.

I spent the day looking and waiting. Then moments before walked down the aisle, a large black butterfly flew into the barn. It stayed through the ceremony.

After we had said our vows and signed the registry, the butterfly came fluttering down the aisle towards me and flew out into the world.

During the speeches, I read for my dad. The words I wanted him to give to me, filled by the hope of the butterfly: Keep your eyes open as love is all around us. Don’t ever be afraid to open up your heart, even if it’s been broken multiple times. Give love a chance and show it whenever and wherever you can. Be kind to one another and we can heal the world.

This will always be a magical moment, a memory that I will cherish. Thank you Baba for aways watching over me.